You are already capable
Have you noticed that many women underestimate their abilities and fail to shine a light on their performance?
Are you one of those women?
Perhaps, at times, you have thought you needed to know more, learn more or have more experience to be taken seriously, seek promotion or allow your true value to be seen.
If you are … you are absolutely not alone.
No doubt you’ve heard about the studies that have repeatedly found that men overestimate their abilities and performance, and women underestimate both…. while their performance is of equal quality.
A study by HP found that women only applied for a promotion when they believed they met 100% of the qualifications listed for the job. Men were happy to apply when they thought they could meet 60% of the job requirements.
Ladies, if we want to have more of an impact at the leadership table, it is time for us to shift our thinking.
You do not need to learn more. You do not need to be more experienced. You do not need to wait for permission or to be tapped on the shoulder. And, most importantly, you do not need to wait until you feel more comfortable and confident in your abilities.
What you really need is to get out there and get the experience by doing the do.
You need to apply for that next promotion… even when your experience does not meet 100% of the criteria. You need to step up and tackle that high profile project that will get the attention of those that matter.
Next time you catch yourself thinking you need that next level of expertise before taking a step … STOP IT. You already have enough, know enough and are enough to take action from exactly where you are right now.
We women will never break through the glass ceiling or truly settle into our place at the leadership table in the numbers that will really make a difference while we allow ourselves to think we need everything to be perfect before we make the next move.
It is time to break the long held patterns of thinking and to create some new rules to live and work by. No more waiting, perfecting and pondering. It is about taking action, surrounding yourself with great people and learning as you go.
Here’s how to build the courage to step into all you are capable of –
- Notice your wins. Each week there are things to be proud of. Sometimes they will be big things that are hard to ignore – but more often than not they will be small, almost insignificant, but wins all the same. The more you focus on the things you do well – the more you’ll notice all that you are capable of.
- Stop listening to your inner critic. Your inner critic is there to keep you safe and free from danger. But don’t believe everything it’s telling you is true. Look for evidence that you can rather than listening to all the reasons why you can’t.
- Don’t do it alone. Surround yourself with a network of other advancing people who will lift you up, challenge you and support your growth. This may mean finding some new people to hang with.
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- Know you’ve got this. It is time to be brave and take action in spite of your fear and uncertainty. You are already smart enough, talented enough, experienced enough! All that’s missing is you believing that you can. It is only through putting yourself out there that you will prove that to be true.